There seem to be 2 “types” of people
First- when I say “types”, I am referring to a way of being, or operating. And It’s time to get Honest- not a time to judge yourself, but a time to get very real about which “camp” your in, which “type” of person your being...and whether or not you choose (yes it is a choice that you are making single every day) to stay in that camp or not.
..and YES...this is being VERY broad...so don’t get your panties in a bunch, just feel into this and see what might be true for you.
Type #1 (camp #1)
This “way of being” or operating system”, looks a bit like this:
What’s happening with this Type #1?
Possible Core beliefs/ thoughts:
Type #1- is Operating in Masculine Energy!
And unless your fully identified with Masculine energy (MOST women are NOT) you will be stressed, overwhelmed, and heading for full burnout..in 1 or many areas of life!
And you will never really feel like you have enough...time, money, peace…..(fill in the blank). Welcome to life on the hamster wheel.
Truth- What you DESIRE is MORE flow, grace, ease and presence as you DO and Move thru all aspects of your life: Parenting, Romantic Relationships, Leadership in your Career, or building and running a Business. What you desire is to live in “camp #2”
Type #2 (camp #2)
This “way of being” or operating system” and core Beliefs, look a bit like this:
Type #2- is Operating in Feminine Energy!
I don’t know that I need to keep going here….you get it. And if your in my community and have been following me...then you really GET IT.
So I am asking you to tell the truth.
( I am going to get up on my soap box and kick you in the butt here )
“The truth shall set you free, but first it will piss you off”
If your in Camp #1...You have some feeling (not thinking) to do. WHAT I am asking of you is to be very honest and empowered! Stop living like you don't have a choice! I mean it….enough of that!
If you want to stay in camp #1 then stay. And stop wanting something different to happen. (be empowered and not a victim to your camp)
If you want to move into camp #2 then do something different. Stop saying you will “do something” then never do (until it gets bad enough) If you want off the hamster wheel then get off!
...OK...I am fired up...WHY? Because I am tired of seeing really amazing women (and men) self sabotage on many levels and end up ….with issues like Adrenal fatigue due to a constant state of stress, depression, massive mood swings because they ‘reach their boiling point” then lash out at the ones they love most, eating disorders, end up divorced when it could have been a happy and fulfilling relationship...or stuck in a job that is sucking the living soul out of them….just to name a few. AND...they don’t get to LIVE the life that deep down they KNOW is POSSIBLE! (this is what really breaks my heart, because this is a SOUL thing.)
I know I’ve gotten a bit edgy here...and I hope I made an impact. (and if your mad at me- GOOD- because that means you have the potential for inspired action!)
If you feel a resonance to me and my work, then maybe I'm the one to support you in getting and staying in Camp #2...Let’s find out...reach out on the Connect page…
I am committed to MY personal growth ...and my Career, my Marriage (you can ask him), my friendships and my Bank Account have ALL benefited tenfold! I am who I am today...not because I only deal with the “problems”...it is because I have made the conscious choice to change HOW I move thru my life….I can say with great pride- every year of my life and business gets better! And I want that for you as well. But you have to want it for you!
Reach out on the Connect page - lets talk
Until next time…